Thursday, June 02, 2005

Validation!

A friend and I recently started a little writer's group. I had a great time at our first meeting and am looking forward to continuing it, both for the company and for feedback, but especially for her wonderful know-how about writing professionally and submitting pieces to publishers. (I know, that's a little funny coming from someone who works in publishing.)

On the other hand, I have no idea what she'll get out of it other than the motivation to write before meetings. I'll leave her anonymous in case she prefers it that way, but I want to let her know that I had a great time and want to do it again!

Tonight I went to the writer's group at the local branch of the county library for the second time. Before I went for the first time, I expected it to be a bunch of young readers. You know the type: book lovers who desperately want to be writers but just aren't. Kind of like me. I was all set to feel critical of their work. Wow. First of all, the 8-12 people in the group are amazing writers. Second, they're all published. Very very published. Third, with one exception, they're all over 50. Some are way over 50. Fourth, they're mostly men. There's one older woman, then a younger woman who's in her late 40's, then me.

I read a short story tonight, for the first time. Before I read it aloud, I had no idea how much sex was in there. Gulp. I mean, it's not explicit or gratuitous, let alone titillating, but it is sex and I was reading to a bunch of father-aged men. I had never read any of my writing aloud before.

They liked it. They laughed aloud. They praised the form, the imagery, the style, the symbolism. "This is a very accomplished piece," the leader said. These are people I don't know, whose opinions I value because I admire their writing.

"Does it need . . . ?" I ask.

"Send it off," they said. "See what comments you get back and then decide if you want to add to it. It's ready to go."

I am walking on air. Maybe I can write after all.

13 comments:

paulboal said...

I'm so happy for you! Way to go!

Psycho Kitty said...

Damn, girl! Big, loud, crazed cheering from out here!!

Psycho Kitty said...

And by the way...WE know you can write!

Orange said...

Hooray!

PPB said...

What psychokitty said! We knew you could write! Can't wait to buy your first book!

Ms. Polkadot said...

Yaay!!! That's great. Sounds fun, too.

Jess said...

Sarahlynn! That's awesome. I don't think anyone reading had any doubt that you could write...but its always nice to get the outside validation, isn't it? Congratulations!!!

Princess of Everything (and then some) said...

I am with PPB! When we read your first book we will all be able to say *Yes...I knew her BEFORE she was famous*. I want you to autograph my copy please.

she falters to rise said...

Validation is so wonderful. I'm glad you had such a positive experience. By the way, I wouldn't classify you in this category:

"book lovers who desperately want to be writers but just aren't"


You silly rabbit:)

Sarahlynn said...

Thank you all so much. Now I just need to get over my self-sabotaging fear and actually send it somewhere.

And I want to read all of your books too, when you get around to writing them. :)

trisha said...

I would LOVE to hear you read your own writing!

Smithie said...

That's crazy wonderful, SarahLynn. It makes me want to try out the group at MY library.

ohmigod said...

Awesome, Sarah! I think that the style of your blogs is right up there with Jennifer Weiner. Snappy, quick, funny and fun to read. Send it everywhere! My school loans aren't going to pay themselves! -sis